Saturday, July 31, 2010

ATOMIUM

 
The School of Fish-er
Today we went "back in time" and visited the Atomium, built for the 1958 World Fair.  Inside was the history and building of Atomium.  They also had a temporary exhibit focused on immigration to Belgium.  We could personally relate to the presentation.

Brent at one with the Atomium
Logan-The history was neat and so was the design, but kinda sucked because we couldn't go into all the "balls".

Shea: Pretty Cool.  I liked the top part.

Hayden: Pretty good.  The top was my favorite.

(We made them go to the top.  They were NOT happy about this while waiting in line for the elevator.  Tears were shed.)

©ColleenFisher

Friday, July 30, 2010

Missing a Home and our Little Dog too

This past week we have been SEARCHING for a home.  We found one that could work, close to a school that was listed on the expat.com site that said they took students that don't speak French.  It is in a suburb of Brussels, so a much bigger city.  We told the agent we wanted it and now he has to present us to the owners.  We are also going to look at a couple more today.  Just in case that doesn't work out.

This move is fun and glamorous, but it has had some rough patches as well. Sometimes I think I have "gone around the bend".  Who does this?

1)Most stores close around 6 pm and aren't open at all on Sunday. Most of the stores don't accept the debit or credit card we have, so we have to withdraw cash every time we want to purchase something.  (Probably has saved us money since it is such a hassle).

2)I haven't seen any drive-thrus and only one "fast food" looking place called Quick Burger.  (I lied, I saw a McDonald's here too, but still don't consider it food so can't technically count it).  I now know why most people are so skinny here.

3)Pretty much everything seems harder.  I know it is a learning curve.  The thing that makes this move the most difficult is watching my kids.  I want to expose them to more of the world, different cultures and ways of thinking, but it is hard to watch the struggle and I worry about the looming date of school. 

The kids miss their cousins and friends terribly. They are always asking when someone is coming to visit us. Today I was told by 2/3 of the children that they have decided to move back home because they want to be with their dog Sadie again.  I told them that we don't have a house home, but that our home is wherever we are all together.  I also tried to explain AGAIN that their Uncle Marc was very nice in taking Sadie to live with him and his dog Joey.  That hasn't helped much.  I feel a coup is on the rise.

Logan is reading this next to me and would like to add his name to the list to move back to the US.  I told you there are rebellion forces at work.  Does that make us Darth Vadar?  "Logan, Shea and Hayden, we are your parents".  NOOOOOOO! they cry in unison.

©ColleenFisher

Monday, July 26, 2010

Peanut Gallery

My children have been watching me write this blog and have decided they would like to blog too.  I don't want to track of 4 blogs, so their thoughts will be added to my blog entries.  I am just going to be the scribe, so the thoughts might not be totally coherent.  Here it goes:

Shea: 
I went on a train all the way to Brugge and I had Belgium chocolate there.  The Belgium chocolate here is really good.  When we went back from Brugge I had Belgium chocolate with Lemon in it.  It was quite good.  We have been having a good time here.  I hope my cousins come soon.  Bye.

Hayden:
I liked the chocolate museum. I ate some chocolate there. It was good. I liked the pizza restaurant we went to.  I like "Robin Hood" park (We call it that because it has so many trees around it and we don't know how to say the real name) and the water park (swimming pool) and the beach.  I also like the Bloody Nose park.  (Named because Hayden hit his nose HARD on part of the playground and it bled like crazy)  I like the ice cream shop we go to downtown and waffles with a stream of sugar in them. but mostly the sugar part.  I like the Belgium chocolate ALOT. The one we ate on the train.  My favorite things that we have done is drive the boat on the canal.

Logan:
Our friend Ron came to visit and we went to the park and rented paddle boats.  The paddle boats were dark greenish-brown.  One person got to steer, two had to paddle and three could sit in the front.  I got stuck with my Mom and Shea. Hayden got to go with Ron and Dad.  We almost crashed into wood poles, but I steered us away.  Ron and Dad crashed.  Mom and I paddled over to the island and we saw little cute baby ducks.  They had a red head, orangeish/yellow beak with a black body and feet.   My mom took a video of the baby ducks. I did commentary, but we couldn't hear it very well.  Our time was almost up and we had to pedal back to the dock.  Shea wanted to pedal, so I let her sit on my lap.  I still got to steer.


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Sunday, July 25, 2010

Brugge by Train

We chose to travel by public transportation and took our very first train ride: Destination Brugge.  I heard more people speaking English there today than I have since I left America.  Definitely a tourist town..   Met a teenager from Michigan who wanted to know if I knew where the dance parties were.  Not quite sure what to think about that.  I'm sure it is because I am so young and hip toting around 3 kid.

Our first and only planned stop was the Chocolate Museum.  Not quite what we expected.  We hoped to see well, more chocolate.  We learned about the pods/ tree where the beans are grown and the entire known history.  Saw teacups and frothers and molds Oh my.  When we thought are trip was in vain, we finally saw a demonstration on how chocolate was made and got to try a small piece.  Yeah.  Success.

It was a toss up between taking a horse drawn carriage or a canal boat tour.  All three children agreed on the canal boat tour through town. We were first on the boat and sat near the captain.  He talked to Hayden and Shea the whole time and Hayden even got to drive the boat.  Captain Hayden was so excited he specifically asked me to write about it on the blog.

Since Logan hasn't posed for many shot, I keep taking random photos of him and show him his funny looks. Today was no different until I said to  him, "Go stand by that door."  He walked over and pretended he was knocking on it. It gave us a good laugh.  Just so Random.  He is taking this move the hardest I think.  It was nice to see him at ease and himself for a bit.

 We walked to the Church of Our Lady which houses Michelangelo's Madonna and Child.  (I didn't know that until the canal boat guide told us) At the chocolate museum there was even a replica of it, made of chocolate of course.  All I thought was, "Another Mary and Baby Jesus". Little did I know the significance of this masterpiece, the only work of art to leave Italy while Michelangelo was still alive.  And I thought I came to Europe to offer culture to my children.  Apparently the Momma needs it just as much/more.  The Church was closed and there was plastic and scaffolding around the entire tower so we didn't see the statue.  But we really did though:  If a chocolate replica counts.  MMMmmm.

I debated writing about this next story, but it is my blog, so I am.  The children were all pretty tired on the way home from Brugge.  Logan and Shea were in the two seats behind me, attempting to sleep and Hayden was snuggling on Brent's lap directly in front of me.  Brent and Hayden were talking about tickling and how weird it was that you can't tickle yourself.  Hayden then said, "Dad, that's mostly true.  The only place I can tickle myself is here." as he grabs himself between the legs.  The German lady next to me starts dieing of laughter.  I turn to her and say, "Sorry about that,  he's a boy."  She struggles to say, "It's ok" between uncontrollable giggles.  Hayden immediately covers his face.  It was just so innocent and funny.  I don't want to forget the "little" things.

©ColleenFisher

Friday, July 23, 2010

Marco, Polo...Fisher out of Water? Yep!

We have been here for a little over two weeks and stress and culture shock are rearing their ugly heads. I know, it is sooner than I thought too.  It all started Monday...

A Little Background.

Like I have said before, we are living in a nice but small furnished home.  The size will work for a year or so, but the price is astronomical.  We have this place until the 15th of August and then we can extend if we want.  We have been looking for other places to stay (cheaper).

We had a nice big home in the country lined up too, but it was in such a small town that we would need to buy a second car.  The nice man was going to let us rent his car, but then decided he didn't want us on his insurance (smart move), so said he would sell it to us. Not something we anticipated doing.  We let that option go.

We have found a few place for rent, but the way they do rentals here in Belgium is something definitely foreign.  Homes/apartments are rented for a period of  3, 6 or 9 years.  That's right YEARS.  If you leave early you pay a penalty.  If you leave after the 1st year, you pay 3 months rent in penalties.  After the 2nd year, 2 months rent in panalties, etc.  An "unfurnished" apartment does not come with a refrigerator (expected) or oven (unexpected).

Back to Monday.
I find a home that has a relatively good price.  The kids and I meet the homeowners, little old man and lady. They speak very little English and I speak even less French, but they give us a tour and we get along ok.  The son-in-law/agent shows up and we start talking about the house and the terms.  Then the little old lady says in pretty good English, "You don't speak any French?".  "No I don't" I say "But we are learning and the children have been accepted at the French speaking school in Hamme-Mille."  "This no work for you.  You cannot live here."  Ouch.  A little dose of discrimination. That kinda sucks.

Every house we have found that the price could work is already rented.  We might just change our plans again. Stop stressing about where to live and what school our children will be accepted at and just enjoy the 3 weeks we have left in this truly scenic country.

©ColleenFisher

Thursday, July 22, 2010

Downtown Leuven

The kids and I walked downtown to find umbrellas today.  We found some cool ground paintings that we had to jump into like Mary Poppins.  The were right outside of Saint Peters Church.  This one on the left is Shea and Hayden climbing the Stairway (ladder) to Heaven.  The one one the right is of Shea and Hayden drinking out of the Holy Grail.  Logan is refusing to be in photos at present.

 The fountain of Wisdom.  Please sir, can I have some more?



We also saw and amazing juggler.  There really is just a lack of stripped, spandex wearing jugglers in the world.  Logan told me the juggler said no photos, but this is just a KEEPER!  Am I right ladies?

Other shots of Downtown Leuven:





©ColleenFisher

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Hiking in the Rain

Today was a Belgium National Holiday and Brent had work off.  A nice surprise, so we went for a hike near a small village called Sint Agatha Rode.  It stated to sprinkle as we set off and continued throughout our walk.  We walk near fields of wheat and pastures of cows with short legs and huge muscle bodies.
Shea was so excited to see any kind of animals.  Shea: "Mom, Did you see that old cow?"   Me: "How do you know its old?"  Shea: "Didn't you see it's face? It's grumpy."

Are little legs got tired, so we cut the hike short.  We took a path less traveled in the forest, next to a wheat field, and on to the main road through town.  Thank goodness for snacks.  (The last picture is of Hayden taking "pictures" with his new rock camera that he found on the ground.)


©ColleenFisher

Monday, July 19, 2010

We're going to the church and we're gonna get scarred?

Today we went on a walk about town.  We walked by Sint-Geertruikerk (Saint Gertrude). (right) We also toured  Sint-Pieterskerek (St. Peters Church) (left) where Dirk Bouts masterpieces,The Last Supper and the Martyrdom of St.Erasmus are.  We saw a few other paintings, mostly of saints being martyred.  Head being chopped off spewing blood, knives cutting throats, St. Erasmus getting his intestines pulled out. Logan looked up at me and asked, "Why did you take us here?".  I thought for some culture, but apparently just to scar them.

Friday, July 16, 2010

Donated Glass, How thoughtful

The recycling in Belgium is Ubber complex.  First, you have to purchase specific bags at the grocery store that have a picture of Leuven on it.  If your trash is not in these bags it does NOT get picked up.  Second, different garbage/recycling come on different days of the week every other week, so if you forget to put your bag out you're stuck with it another 2 weeks.  Blue is for plastic bottles, cans and milk type cartons. Green is for yard items, fruits and vegetables.  Brown is for unrecyclable trash, the real trash.  Third, once a month young children come by and collect paper products for their different organizations (these are not to be thrown in any other trash bag).  Lastly, you take your glass bottles to specific glass recycling containers placed around town.  This is a new system to me and a bit time consuming, but one I think is a worth while effort and am glad to do.

By yesterday we had collected quite a few glass bottles, so the kids and I went for a walk to deposit them.  I found a green bin at the end of the main street and it had the recycle sign on it.  There was also a picture of a child so I thought maybe this bin helped one of the youth groups.  We opened the huge hinged lid.  (kind of like a mail box) and dropped in our bag of bottles.  Thud and the sound of broken glass.  I thought, "Hmm, I guess this bin was just emptied".  No big deal.

I went home and google translated one of the word on the bin.  It was textiles.  Yep, I think I just donated broken glass to a child, how thoughtful.

©ColleenFisher

Monday, July 12, 2010

Spinning Round and Round

Today was kind of a sour day on this lemonade trip.  We spent the afternoon at the city building trying to register as temporary residents. Apparently the Belgium Consulate and web site is a little off.  We were told we, as a family, could "piggy-back" on Brent's work visa and information while staying here, but really we can't.  We need our marriage license, birth certificates for children and a background check for me done, all authenticated by someone (Maybe the Leuitenent Governor in Utah like we had to do for Brent?)  All good things to know before our arrival here.  I had a month to wait around in Arizona.  I do have the birth certificates.  So, that was a bust.

On to the bank so we can get Brent's check deposited later this month and not pay anymore currency exchange charges.  Maybe we will have better luck there.  No can do.  You can't create a bank account without your letter stating you are a resident of the city and the police coming to your door to verify that you live there.  Craziness.  I think I need a piece of Belgium chocolate for my headache (or maybe the whole box).

©ColleenFisher

Sunday, July 11, 2010

Beach Trip


Today we went to the North Sea, somewhere near Brugge. I remember from high school German class (which honestly I don't remember much from) that lots of Germans took Holiday there.  I also remember thinking they were crazy.  Sun bathing and swimming in the North Sea?  Wouldn't they practically freeze to death?  What fun is that? I found myself  pleasantly surprised.  The weather was wonderful.  The water about as cold as the Pacific Ocean near California.

Mentioning California brings me to another point.  I am thinking this kind of beach is my beach.  I saw no abnormally sized breast and lipo-suctioned bodies.  What I did see was that most of the people had cellulite and/or stretch marks.  Normal looking bodies.  I felt right at home in my bikini.

©ColleenFisher

Friday, July 9, 2010

Rocking Leuvan Parties

Every Friday night in July the city blocks off their Markts (city centers) and sets up stages with bands rocking the night away.  We visited three different stages and then one kid was tired, another had a tummy ache and the third wanted to go wee, wee, wee all the way home because he was bored.  We just got home (11 pm) and the party is still going strong. That was our happening night.

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The coolest playground EVER.

The people who we rent the house we are staying in suggested a park near their home that they thought the kids would like.  We went and checked it out tonight.  They sure know how to make the kids imaginations soar.  We were there until the guards locked the gate at 9.



Ecohaus


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A New Day

Brent got up early  this morning to get some food from the bakery down the street.  Bakery is still closed. Called a taxi to pick up Brent for work and to get our car.  Kids are still asleep.  No one grumpy yet. Phew. I join the kids back in slumberland and we are all still sleeping when Brent comes home after lunchtime.

We find a place called the Lunch Garden to eat.  "Mom, we want breakfast". Sorry kids it's even past lunchtime and there is no Denny's in sight.  Can't read much of the menu.  This language barrier might be tougher than I thought.  Settle on what looks like hamburger.  Pretty safe. "We will take 4 hamburgers, fries and a small cup of soup." That is exactly what we got.  Hamburger (no bun or fixings of any kind) next to a bed a fries.  Ketchup is extra.

On to our next adventure.  Grocery shopping.  Normally I am pretty good.  I have my scheduled menu and know what I need at the store.  That is great when everything is in English and you can make your way around a store.  My usual shopping trip of 30 minutes, took 2 hours and I am still not quite sure what we are having for dinner the next couple of nights.  I need the software for the Minute Menu Plan done Yesterday!

©ColleenFisher

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Now, Where did I Put that Panic Button!

Surprisingly the flight from Phoenix to London went great.  The layover was tolerable and the flight to Brussels just fine too. Arrived in Belgium early evening...1st stop, the bathroom with Shea.  A sign on the door warning of child prostitution, no lie.  Freaking Out a little bit.  Walked out of the airport to find a taxi to take us to our new home.  No taxis big enough to handle our crowd of five.  Walked back into the airport.  Asked every single rent-a-car place for a lease, none available.  Went to the info desk, placed a call to a taxi service company.  They had to call in the BIG van that fit 7.  Phew.


Got to our rental house.  Little, but cute.  Found out that all the stores/restaurants around close at 8 pm.....past 8 pm, CRAP.  Kids starving.  Brent raids the owners cupboards and find rice and some sort of spinach dish.  Try to serve to the kids.  Guess they aren't that hungry after all.  Go to sleep, we will get food in the morning. Everyone getting grumpy.  "I hate Belgium" is already echoing of the walls.  DOUBLE CRAP.  Feeling paniced.  Forgot to pack the panic button.  CRAP, CRAP, CRAP.  Got to go to sleep.

©ColleenFisher

Monday, July 5, 2010

Launch Date

Last night I was laying in bed, feeling the realization that tomorrow is the day.  I am excited, scared, nervous and just plain second-guessing this decision to move my family 1/2 way across the world.  We have had a great time in Arizona this past month, especially my oldest.  He does not want to leave his cousins. I feel his pain.  Saying goodbye is just one of my least favorite words in the English dictionary.

But, after all is said and done, the reasons to go still outweigh the reasons to stay, as it is in any relationship.  So I say, "Bring it on Belgium, I'm ready for you."  (I think/hope)